There is a small zoo not too far from here, so Laura and I decided to take Brayden and Caden on Tuesday, before our (successful) attempt at the pool!

There is a small zoo not too far from here, so Laura and I decided to take Brayden and Caden on Tuesday, before our (successful) attempt at the pool!
As some of you know, my child loves bath time but until Tuesday, hated swimming pools. He hated them last year, the times I tried taking him to the indoor pool this winter, and when we spent an entire weekend at the water park. Yes, how much fun can you have at a water park with a kid who is afraid? Not a lot, I will tell you that.
This all changed on Tuesday, thanks to my friend Laura. Her in-laws have a fabulous pool, so we did a play date at the zoo (another post) and then went there to swim. She was smart and grabbed the wading pool at her house beforehand, and Brayden actually liked it.
I have photographic evidence of my son enjoying the swimming pool! I also feel like I should have bought a lottery ticket.
It’s no secret that most of our outdoor time will now be spent going up and down the slide. Brayden is in love!
Brayden’s first vacation adventure was last October when we went to Colorado for 10 days. This time, my parents asked if him and I wanted to tag along back to my hometown in Western Nebraska for a couple of days to see some family. I couldn’t say no! My aunts, uncles, and friends haven’t gotten to meet Brayden, so it was definitely worth the trip. As most of you know, my dad is a pilot, so Brayden had his first plane ride with Grandpa this week.
18 months old? Really? I can’t grasp this concept. My baby is a year and a half old, and somedays it feels like he just got here! This will be the last monthly post I do (I think… I don’t know, it’s kind of sad yet amazing at the same time) so I figured I better have some pictures.
Have I ever mentioned how much I hate the teething process? It totally steals my sweet, happy, go-with-the-flow little boy and replaces him with a whiny, crying, miserable boy. It breaks my heart every time.
He has been absolutely miserable for the last week. He is cutting his eye teeth (I call them the fang ones!) and I think? 2 year molars. The back of his mouth is pretty swollen and when he chews on something? It goes straight back into his mouth, not on the sides. I gave him one of my new spare toothbrushes and he LOVES it. It is like the greatest teether for his age because he doesn’t try to gag himself with it. And the little tongue scraper on the other side? Probably feels really good on his gums.
I am trying not to wish his life away, but I will be pretty happy when he has all of his teeth.
Brayden is knocking on 18 months of age right now and still no words.
None.
Just grunts and uhhhs and pointing and grabbing and tantrums. He knows HOW to communicate, just not vocally. And it is driving me crazy. He doesn’t even say “momma”, which I SO long to hear.
I used to repeat everything to him- such as this:
“Do you want this red cup? Do you see the tree? It is green. Oh you want this box? It is brown.” I quickly realized that this? Was not going to work. I was going to drive him AND myself crazy. And for what? For him to learn it faster and be able to talk back? Yeah…not so much.
I know that he will in his own time, but it is so frustrating. Our pediatrician isn’t worried (yet) and I am hoping to ask her about it at his 18 month appointment early next month. Until then? I will just keep exposing him to things, reading to him, and pointing out what he is looking at- only without being super annoying.

Hi! I'm Julie- wife, stay at home momma, aspiring photographer, and blogger of all things! Read more...
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