Easter Recap

We had a wonderful Easter holiday- albeit, busy! Saturday, Kenley got her 6 months photos done by my friend Laura (they didn’t go so well, so we did part 2 on Monday) and then just us 4 adults went out for dinner! With no kids! JUST THE 4 OF US! This has never happened in all the time I have been friends with Laura- and we had a TON of fun. We were only gone for about 2 hours, but it was much needed by all of us!

On Easter, we do the Annual Petersen Egg Hunt- this year, the money egg was $70. Wouldn’t you know, the hubs won. He doesn’t share the egg money, either. Mom hid a few eggs for Brayden at her house, so he got to look for those. He wanted more- but as it turned out, he wasn’t much help in the adult egg hunt! Grandpa hides them too well! We all ate too much food, dessert, and Easter candy, and the kids were wiped- but it was a fun day! Next year, I am going to do baskets like my mom always does for us and do a little hunt in the house. I am already excited!

But the most important thing about Easter was that Jesus rose on the third day- He is Risen! He is Risen, indeed!

Photo Dump Time!

I just realized I never shared any Christmas photos with you! :)

We had such a great Christmas, and for the first time in YEARS, we didn’t feel rushed or anxious or flat out exhausted. The kids did great- we are so blessed. Brayden got lots of fun new toys (puzzles, books, tractors), Kenley got a few stuffed animals, clothes, and her first baby doll, I got lots of new kitchen goodies (including a food processor!) and Brandon got lots of man cave/Case IH things. We had tons of fun- tons- and I can’t wait until next year when Kenley is a little bit older and starts to “get” it.

 

 

Calming the Frazzled

My bff and I were chatting on the phone this morning and our conversation turned to how the holidays have changed now that we have gotten married and have our own families- (she is due in 3 weeks!!). It just gets crazier every year. Arguments and tension over who will be where and when, trying to find the balance between it all, yet still wanting to leave SOME room open for our own traditions for our kids.

At this rate, I almost feel like my small, cute, immediate family will never have our OWN thing. It will always be a rush from one place to the next.

And it makes me sad, I won’t lie. It dampens my spirit a little. I remember as a kid going to church on Christmas Eve and just taking those moments and soaking in the image of Jesus’ birth. The awe and wonder of it all. It was magical to think about.

Now, we have lots of places to go, lots of places to see, and while I enjoy being with family (and feel blessed to have a lot) I just can’t help the feeling of wanting to wake up, stay in my jammies, and enjoy my little family for a whole day. Or a whole morning. Without getting static from others. Holidays and my anxiety generally do not mix well, but I am really trying to just be OK with everything we have going on so that I can enjoy. But it’s tough.

This coming year will bring some big changes to our family (no, not pregnant, not planning to be- let me just get that out of the way!) and I am hoping that simplicity and balance will be found so that my frazzled state of mind doesn’t exist.

The Holiday Rush

I am feeling the effects of the Holiday rush. Rushing to get things checked off my list, gifts purchased, wrapped, cookies made, plans finalized- PHEW! It’s exhausting, and with two kids in the mix, I am really struggling to keep my head above water.

However, I LOVE this time of year. I love making Christmas cookies and candies, spending time with my family, buying gifts, having the Christmas tree up, listening to Christmas music, etc. I went to church this past weekend for the first time in a LONG time (hello crazy anxiety about leaving Brayden in Sunday School) and it was incredible. I love singing Christmas songs with an entire group. It’s truly moving. (Oh, and yes, just K and I went to church. Brandon stayed home with a sick Brayden. This coming weekend, I will face my fear and introduce him to Sunday School. HOLD ME!)

I am trying to stop in the midst of our plans and be truly thankful for what Christmas means- the birth of Jesus Christ. I will never tire of the story of baby Jesus, the glory, and the pure love that this season brings around. I hope you are all surviving in the midst of the holiday craziness, no matter how you celebrate.

And with that, I have some cookies to tend to!

Halloween 2011

I woke up on Monday on the wrong side of the bed. Kenley is still cluster feeding, still going to bed pretty late, the hubs is working non-stop and I just didn’t want to face the day. I was mad at myself for even getting Brayden a costume when I should have just skipped it this year. Brandon knew how much I was looking forward to it, came home early, and we took the kids to see some family and then called it a night. Brayden LOVED his “oof” costume!

Once he figured out that all he had to do was wear that and smile to get candy, he was all about it. It was so funny to watch him “get it” and he had tons of fun. I borrowed a cat costume from a friend for Kenley, but between all the eating and trying to leave, I decided to just leave her in her pumpkin sleeper- it was too cute! And yes, not my best posing for her either but we were in a hurry and I knew I HAD to get a photo at SOME point.

Will it get easier to get the kids in photos together? And don’t even get me started on a family photo. It’s been 4 weeks and we still don’t have one.

Memorial Day Photos

Sunday, we headed up north to my aunt and uncle’s house, where my uncle was preparing his signature meal: ribs and chicken. Yum!

Brayden helping adjust the bike. 

Me, trying to get away from the toddler that just wanted to ride!

Luckily, my sister’s boyfriend stepped in and took Brayden. 

My sister and I. 

My parent’s dog, Gus. 
It was a fun day, we all ate entirely too much, and Brayden did really well for only having an hour nap! 

Mother’s Day Happenings

I have to admit, this year, Mother’s Day was pretty great.

We made breakfast (waffles with strawberries, whipped cream, and chocolate chips, turkey bacon), played outside, and cooked out with Brandon’s mom and brother’s. The boys got me a very nice 12 inch skillet with a lid (POTS WITH LIDS!) which I was more than thrilled with. My pots and pans collection leaves much to be desired, so this was a very nice addition! I am also pretty sure that I didn’t have to change a diaper at all on Sunday- so that was also a bonus. It was nice to have my boys home all day since Brandon is now working in the field 16 hours a day!

My new favorite photo of Brayden. 

My baby boy.

Doesn’t he look so mischievous? 

Tired after a long day of playing outside.

Hard to believe that next year, I will have two children that have fulfilled my dream of being a mommy! 

Valentine’s Day Preparations

Valentine’s Day is a week from today (in case some of you didn’t know!) and I was just curious to hear what you guys do to celebrate.
My husband doesn’t really LOVE Valentine’s Day. He thinks it is stupid, and while I mostly agree with him, it IS kind of hard to NOT get sucked in. Candy hearts, chocolate hearts, mushy cards, cute stuffed animals- what’s not to love?
I usually get Brandon a card- that’s pretty much it. Sometimes I add in his favorite candy bar, type of coffee, cologne if he is out, something small and meaningful. I generally get a card from him as well. Flowers occasionally. But ALWAYS an “I love you” and a “thank you”- which is really what counts. 
I look forward to doing something small for Brayden for Valentine’s Day. My mom always got us small boxes of conversation hearts and socks with hearts on them. I look forward to it every year!
What do you do for your significant other and/or your children?

Holiday Recap

What a blessed Christmas we have this year. As I sit here on the morning after Christmas reliving the past couple days, I can truly say my family of 3 is blessed beyond measure. Brayden is playing on the floor with his new toys, the hubby is still asleep after being out until 3am plowing snow, and I am sitting here calmly, wondering how different the house will look after we take down all of the decorations!

Christmas Eve night was spent hosting my family. We always have chili, hot chicken sandwiches, and this year I made hot artichoke dip, veggie tray, meat and cheese tray, plus all of the cookies and candy we made recently! We ate and ate and ate some more, and it was delicious. This is the same meal that my dad always had Christmas Eve when he was growing up- so definitely a stone set tradition. We did gifts as well, and that did not go like I thought it would! Brayden got really excited when we started moving the gifts from the front porch into the living room but when it was time to open? He didn’t really take any interest. We had to start unwrapping, show him what might be inside, and THEN he wanted to help. He was very patient as we untangled, snipped wires, etc to get the toys out.

Brandon and I usually do gifts on Christmas morning with each other, but my family knew what we were getting each other, and got accessories for our new items, so we had no choice but to open in front of everyone. Brandon totally caught me off guard and surprised me with the Nook Color- the gadget I have been dreaming about since I heard of it’s release! It is incredible, and I love reading in bed at night with it backlit so it’s not bothering Brandon while he is trying to sleep. I surprised Brandon with the iPhone 4, knowing that he wouldn’t get it for himself. I look forward to getting it up and going for him today! Now we can FaceTime when he is in Costa Rica this March! Also? We generally don’t spend this much on each other and now I know why he told me not to get him a new phone- because I think he went over his budget on the Nook. (He bought the protection plan because of Brayden-wise man, that one!)

From my parents we received a Keurig, I got new pots and pans, Brandon got a new saw- we are definitely spoiled. Brayden got some great new toys that he is LOVING, some new clothes, and the cutest winter hat from BabyGap from my brother’s girlfriend and her parents.

We spent Christmas Day with Brandon’s family and by the end of it, we looked like Santa’s sleigh had broken down and we were the chosen ones to take what was left home! Brayden definitely is spoiled rotten (or as I call it, blessed!) and now we have new toys and trucks and pillow pets and tractors. He is loving it.

It’s a safe bet that my next few days will be spent hooking up tractors, farming, and racing cars!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

I hope you all have a wonderful day filled with giving, love, the spirit of Christmas, and spending time with family and loved ones. 

“For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counsellor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.”



Isaiah 9:6