My Value

As some of you might know, I am kind of obsessed with the show Sister Wives on TLC. Not because I condone or believe in their lifestyle, because I don’t, but because I think the way they DO live their lives is interesting. And I think it takes a lot of guts to air that on national television- but I am sure the paycheck makes THAT easier, right?

Anyways, in last week’s episode, they discussed their finances and how their family deals with money. Cody, along with 2 of his wives, work outside the home- which is where the income comes from. The other 2 wives stay home with the children, do the grocery shopping, cleaning, etc. Makes sense to me when you have that many children to tend to.

The part that struck me the most about this episode was that Robyn, Cody’s newest wife, was having a hard time with this arrangement. She didn’t feel that the other wives were seeing her value in the household, like she had something to prove. She said that she wanted the other wives to see what she was doing with their kids and acknowledge her basically. Because, they don’t have enough going on between that many kids, sharing a husband, etc.

It got me thinking though, about the value that I hold in our home. When we got married, I was still a full time student with one semester to go until graduation. We knew that I wouldn’t be working, and just decided from the beginning (after the advice from my mom!) to budget our money off of one income, so that we would know we could always make it work. This proved to be very, very helpful when I decided to stay home after having Brayden. It also made it very difficult at first, knowing that I wasn’t contributing financially. Brandon and I talked about it, and he made it very clear that I was contributing immensely. I was taking care of Brayden, the home, the food, the every day necessities- so that he didn’t have to. This made him more available to us at the end of the day when he is home, and it finally clicked with me.

Sure, I still have my days where I wonder just what on earth the value of changing poopy diapers and constantly cleaning up messes actually IS. But at the end of the day, I am doing what I do best- being a wife and a mother. And I wouldn’t change it for anything.

12 Weeks

No photo today, I am sorry! I am barely going to have enough time to do this post- but it’s important, because I want to look back on these one day.

How far along?: 12w
How big is baby?
The size of a lime! :)  
Weight gain/loss?I haven’t gotten on the scale since my last appointment. I have been feeling better, but still getting sick here and there. It’s hard to say!

Stretch marks?
None.
Maternity clothes?Loving yoga pants! I did have Brandon get my box of maternity clothes out of the attic so I can start washing them and getting them ready to wear. It needs to warm up!

Sleep?Yes, please. I am sleeping pretty well. 

Food cravings?:  None really this week.

Gender?:
 Unknown
Movement?:
 Not yet!
Belly button?Nothing new there either!

What are you looking forward to this week?Getting back to normal now that my hubby is back home! 



From BabyCenter: The most dramatic development this week: Reflexes. Your baby’s fingers will soon begin to open and close, his toes will curl, his eye muscles will clench, and his mouth will make sucking movements. In fact, if you prod your abdomen, your baby will squirm in response, although you won’t be able to feel it. His intestines, which have grown so fast that they protrude into the umbilical cord, will start to move into his abdominal cavity about now, and his kidneys will begin excreting urine into his bladder. From crown to rump, your baby-to-be is just over two inches long (about the size of a lime) and weighs half an ounce.


I can’t believe I am almost done with the first trimester already! In some aspects, it feels like this baby will never get here, but in other ways, I feel like I will never have enough time to do everything. I am nervous about all of the transitions that still need to take place for Brayden (big boy bed, starting potty training) but I am trying not to freak out, because I need to do those things when he is ready. It’s a lot to think about, that is for sure! Names are starting to come to me (even though we will keep the name a secret until baby is born), I am wondering if we will have a boy or a girl- all things I thought about with Brayden. It’s fun to think about and those are the moments when I am finding peace in the midst of my thoughts of how chaotic this could be! 

A long 10 days

I am so glad to have my husband back after 10 days! He had the opportunity to go to Costa Rica for 10 days on a agricultural trip with my brother’s college. It was definitely an experience for them as I am learning, and it was tough being the keeper of the house for 10 days with Brayden! We missed him, but this was simply an opportunity that would never come up for him again. The hardest part was not talking to him every day. He didn’t take his cell phone due to the outrageous international calling fees and they didn’t have access to wifi every night, only about half of the time.

They visited dairy farms, hiked, zip lined, white water rafted, and 100 other things that I can’t remember. They had a really full itinerary and were pretty tired when they got home. They met a lot of really nice people there, ate some pretty good food, and stayed in some very interesting, rustic places. I can’t wait to see some more of the videos that Brandon got while he was gone.

Brayden and I survived- we stayed with some friends last weekend, and then my college roommate and BFF from Florida flew up for the week just to hang out. Thanks to her, the week went by faster! We ate with my parents quite a bit, did a little shopping, and relaxed. It was nice but I was SO ready to go get Brandon last night. We have never been apart for that long and I was just so thankful he was home safe and sound. I even cooked a big meal for him- I think he appreciated that!

Thankfully, my nausea is starting to subside- that helped immensely in taking care of Brayden on my own! My mom kept him for one night so Sheana and I could get dinner together, so that was a nice little break. He was so happy to see Brandon and hasn’t really left his side since last night. Boys… :)

Umm, Spring? Where are you?

We had a GORGEOUS weekend and beginning of the week here. Brayden and I were outside in just t-shirts and pants, walking with the stroller, being outside. Today? 35 degrees and a chance of flurries.

If I see a flurry, I am driving to Florida. I am NOT kidding. I am SO eager for spring temperatures, not having to bundle Brayden up every time we go out, and ditching the sweaters.

But then that leads me to a dilemma… I would have to go straight from Uggs to flip flops because I have NO flats. So tell me, where do you buy cute flats? What are your favorites? Because I need to get a couple pairs until my rough, kept-in-socks feet are ready for summer.

Saturday Fun

Over the weekend, Brayden and I went to stay with my high school BFF Jacqui and her hubby, Mike. We had a blast playing outside while Mike was coaching baseball, and Brayden showed us that he has quite the left arm! :)

We totally wore him out, and he slept in until 9am Sunday morning! Talk about a change of pace- I am pretty sure he has only done that once in his entire life. I told Jacqui if I thought he would do it again, we would just keep staying there! He was such a good boy the whole time, and I can’t wait to do that again!

More from Hearts at Home

My head is literally still spinning from the wealth of knowledge that I took in at the Hearts at Home conference. One of my favorite workshop sessions was about being a Parenting Professional. Here are just some snippets of what I wrote down… I hope you will see something that resonates with you, and if not, I am just thankful to be sharing it anyway.

-We need to parent in such a way that our children sing their song and sing it well.

- Out children are unique & different. They require short term, intermediate, and long term goals.

-Parenting professionals are teachable, they work hard to improve, and are NOT defeated by setbacks.

-Choose to be an encourager. Choose to be a positive role model. Choose to be present. Working with our kids makes them feel needed. Choose to discipline in love. Choose to pray. It helps them since their song.

-In instances, we need to tell our children to do what we ask of them immediately because their lives might depend on their quick reaction. (This struck a HUGE chord with me! This is so important!)

11 Weeks

11 week photo! (not sure why my shirt is puckering like that in the back and I NEED to find a new place for these photos, but this is the only full mirror in the house…)

How far along?: 11w
How big is baby?
The size of a fig.
Weight gain/loss?: As of my appointment last Thursday, I have lost 5 pounds. My doctor put me on Zofran, and it is helping, but I didn’t do a good job of keeping anything in my stomach over the weekend.

Stretch marks?
None.
Maternity clothes?: Still wearing yoga pants as much as possible, but if we are out and about, I throw on jeans. 

Sleep?Yes, please. I am sleeping pretty well. 

Food cravings?:  Water, fruit, ANYTHING. 

Gender?:
 Unknown
Movement?:
 Not yet!
Belly button?Nothing new there either!

What are you looking forward to this week?: My college roomie from FL is coming! :)  



From BabyCenter: Your baby, just over 1 1/2 inches long and about the size of a fig, is now almost fully formed. Her hands will soon open and close into fists, tiny tooth buds are beginning to appear under her gums, and some of her bones are beginning to harden. She’s already busy kicking and stretching, and her tiny movements are so effortless they look like water ballet. These movements will become more frequent as her body grows and becomes more developed and functional. You won’t feel your baby’s acrobatics for another month or two — nor will you notice the hiccupping that may be happening now that her diaphragm is forming.


Getting close to being out of the first trimester! WOO!

Some iPhone photos!

I know, my posts have been picture-less lately, but I am hoping now that I am on some new medicine, that will change! For now, here are a few photos from my phone.

My boys! 

Brayden was messing around while he was sitting on the bench in the mudroom while I was putting his shoes on- needless to say, that wasn’t the smartest idea nor was I fast enough to catch him. He ended up falling between the benches and getting a nice little black eye. 

We got new living room furniture! This was actually a set of Brandon’s moms that we have always loved. Over Thanksgiving, she asked us about putting it on Craigslist and we immediately said we wanted it- we just didn’t know when. Well the time has come! We ended up selling our old (pretty new) furniture to my brother in law who desperately needed some decent furniture. Everyone wins! Now, I am on the hunt for some sort of ottoman, because this furniture doesn’t recline that the other did. Where should I start looking?

10 week appointment

We had an OB appointment yesterday, and I was so excited to be able to hear the heartbeat! That excitement kind of faded into worry when I got on the scale– I had lost 5 pounds. Eek! The nurse asked me how I was feeling, and I told her pretty much awful 90% of the time. The nausea really comes and goes, but when it comes around- ugh. I feel so terrible. It is so hard for me to keep up with Brayden, especially when it comes to poopy diapers! The nurse was just a little concerned, and the Dr. decided to put me on Zofran. Hallelujah!

The baby was hiding right under my C-section scar so she couldn’t get a good listen, so we ended up doing an ultrasound just to make sure everything was ok. It is absolutely amazing how the baby has developed and changed since being a blob on the last ultrasound! The baby was kicking its legs, moving like crazy. It is just crazy to imagine that all of that is going on inside of me and I can’t feel a thing yet.

Things are going well. I am hoping that the Zofran helps- I miss eating breakfast (or keeping it once I eat it!) and I miss the energy to be around Brayden all day long without needed some assistance! I do feel like this pregnancy is flying, and that I still have SO much to do. I am just hoping I can get it all done.

I will always be amazed at the miracle of life, even though I have already been through this once. God is just amazing, and he has amazing things planned for us and our new addition!

10 weeks

Sorry, no photo this week. BUT I am definitely getting a small baby bump. For me, I am definitely showing a little faster than I did with Brayden, but it is still not noticeable to people who don’t know. Does that make sense? In one word? Awkward. 


How far along?: 10w1d
How big is baby?
The size of a kumquat.
Weight gain/loss?Since I haven’t been to the doctor again, we will say 0. I go Thursday.

Stretch marks?
None.
Maternity clothes?I prefer my yoga pants to jeans right now, but I am not wearing maternity exclusively and I hope not to be for quite a while yet. 

Sleep?Yes, please. I am sleeping pretty well. 

Food cravings?: Water, McDonald’s sausage biscuit, chips.

Gender?:
 Unknown
Movement?:
 Not yet!
Belly button?Nothing new there either!

What are you looking forward to this week?Going to our appointment this week and God willing, hearing a precious healthy heartbeat!



From BabyCenter: Although he’s barely the size of a kumquat – a little over an inch or so long, crown to bottom — and weighs less than a quarter of an ounce, your baby now has completed the most critical portion of his development. This is the beginning of the so-called fetal period, a time when the tissues and organs in his body rapidly grow and mature. If you could take a peek inside your womb, you’d spot minute details, like tiny nails forming on fingers and toes (no more webbing) and peach-fuzz hair beginning to grow on tender skin.


The nausea is hit or miss, but when it hits, it is pretty awful. Thankfully, it tends to only last until lunch time with some reappearances in the evenings. I have insomnia once in a great while in the middle of the night, but other than that, so far so good! I can’t wait for our appointment!

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